
She also firmly stated that she would not allow other people or the media to dictate what she can and cannot do. Additionally, in an interview with celebrity blogger Perez Hilton, she defended the clip calling the video "racy" but in line with the perspective of her album. Hilson told Hot 97 's Angie Martinez, that she would not be making any apologies for the explicit lyrics as well as the provocative video. Some critics also stated that certain scenes of the video nearly resembled those of a pornography movie. After its premiere on November 28, 2010, on a hip-hop site, it received negative criticism from critics because of the limited amount of clothing Hilson wore in the video. It features cameo appearances from JoJo, Faith Evans, Dawn Richard, Columbus Short and Polow Da Don. The song's accompanying music video was created as a mini-movie, and was directed by Laurieann Gibson. Several of them also chose it as a stand-out track from No Boys Allowed. The clean version of the song was generally well received by music critics who called it raunchy, and praised how the intense vocal delivery of Hilson matched effectively with the rapid pace and heavy beat of the song. It features rough and aggressive vocals by Hilson. The lyrics for "The Way You Love Me" are about a woman in a committed relationship, whose sexual desire for her lover leads her to openly and explicitly describe her feelings for him. The song, described as a reflection of Hilson's wilder side, is an R&B– dance-pop song consisting of electro and rock music influences. įor the release of No Boys Allowed in December 2010, "The Way You Love Me" was re-recorded as a clean version with some lyrical modifications including the omission of the word "fuck" in several places.


She added that "The Way You Love Me" was not a song "meant for children". However, Hilson clarified in several interviews that the song was not just sexual but also had a message for empowerment of women. "The Way You Love Me" surfaced online on Novemits explicit lyrics fueled controversy, with music critics accusing the singer of swerving into a racy lane. It was written by Stanley Benton, India Boodram, Paul Dawson, Hilson, Kesia Hollins, Jazmyn Michel as well as William Roberts, and was produced by Polow da Don. " The Way You Love Me" is a song recorded by American R&B singer-songwriter Keri Hilson featuring rapper Rick Ross from the former's second studio album No Boys Allowed (2010).
